When you hear what is breaking marriages today you will marvel, because they are not serious things so to say, but little unnoticed things that can easily be taken care of if the couples that are involved have been vigilant enough.
One thing each couple must know is that they are the one that will make their marriage work, what they do or fail to do daily will determine whether the marriage will stand the test of time or not. Three major marriage killers couples must guide against are;
1. Influences of third parties: You cannot do away with your in-laws, parents, friends, and neighbors, they are part of your life, but you have to realize that there should be limit to the relationship you can have with them, once you are married the first person you are indebted to as far as the issue of relationship is concerned is your spouse, don’t let others no matter who they are drag you in a direction that will sour your relationship with your spouse.
2. Lack of or not enough communication: Communicate with your spouse as much as possible, talk about all issues, including the one you don’t have interest in but is your spouse area of interest. This will create a healthy relationship between the two of you, and will help you to know each other better.
3. Unforgiveness: Prepare your mind to always forgive your spouse whenever he or she offends you because your partner will definitely do that. Do not keep quiet or harbor the issue in your mind, always speak and point out the issue and have it discussed and solved on the spot, delaying or allowing it to linger can make it to escalate into what you cannot handle.
When you know what can cause problems in your marriage and you are on the lookout for them, you will quickly nip any issue that is about to come up in the bud and get over it.
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